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The World In a Raindrop

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One day I was asked to share something interesting about myself. I sat there for a moment, stuck, not knowing which part of me was more interesting than the other. Then it hit me! What I always rediscover about myself is, in fact, the most interesting thing of all. I am the kind of person who turns everyday moments into stories, whether through writing or conversation. I am deeply curious about people and their lived experiences. Not long ago, one of the training wheels on my daughter’s bicycle broke. We set out to find a bike repairer and thankfully, we found one. It was a rainy day, the kind of rain that soaks through clothes and leaves you cold and uncomfortable. It was not a good day to spend time outdoors, but we had no choice. It was something we had to do for our daughter. Finding the repairer felt like luck, but what caught my attention was where he was working. He sat under a tree that barely provided any shelter. If anything, the branches caused the rainwater to drip directly...
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Research Communication Matters in Rural Communities TOO

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  As a communication professional, I am curious about many things, because communication is an essential part of daily life and more importantly of development work. Recently, I enrolled in a Research Communication Program, which equips researchers, faculty, practitioners and advocates with the skills and strategies needed to communicate research findings effectively to different audiences, including academic peers, policymakers and the general public. When I first came across the program, one question immediately stood out to me: how are research findings communicated to people in rural communities? What happens to the beneficiaries of development projects and programs in villages? What about the rural man, woman, or youth who participates in research but never truly understands the findings? In many cases, research results are either not communicated at all or are shared in language that is too technical and difficult for community members to understand. This question took me bac...
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Why I Decided to Share My Story

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One day I woke up and realized something important: My story has power! For years, I carried my experiences quietly, thinking they were just mine to live through. But then I started meeting girls who felt small, undermined, unseen and unsure of their own worth. I saw myself in them. And I knew I couldn’t keep my journey to myself anymore. So, I decided to write a book. This book is about growing up, finding my voice and facing and overcoming challenges that once felt too heavy to carry. It’s about the moments that broke me and also the ones that built me back up stronger. My hope is that it will remind girls everywhere that no matter where you come from, You Got This! Your story matters. Your voice deserves to be heard. The book will be published in November 2026. But I don’t want to wait until then to let you in. Today, I am sharing a short preview from one of the early chapters. It’s about my very first days of secondary school, days that taught me about fear, courage, belonging and...
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Culture, Identity and the Next Generation

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Being a storyteller is one of the greatest gifts I have received. Stories open doors to new worlds, forgotten traditions, buried wisdom and lived experiences from all walks of life. As a writer and podcaster, I get to engage with people from different disciplines, cultures and generations. And recently, I have been honored to join the organizing team for Malawi’s upcoming Cultural Day event on August 23, 2025 hosted by Ngale Arts 428 at Kigali events Centre in Lilongwe, Malawi. This isn’t just another event for me. It touches a deep concern I have carried for years: the slow erosion of our culture.  The event will be a vibrant celebration of everything that makes us uniquely Malawian. It’s about traditional dances, local foods, indigenous games and the everyday practices that define us from our roots. It’s an amazing experience that will bring together cultures from across the country; from the Sena to the Chewa, Ngoni to the Tumbuka, Yao to the Lomwe and many more. Whether it’s th...
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When Silence Brings Loud Lessons

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Two weeks ago, I broke my phone. Yes, my bridge to the world, slipped from my hands and landed in a tragic mess. Since then, my online presence has been on life support. For someone who’s usually present in the digital spaces, this sudden silence might have felt odd to those who know me well. Yesterday, something happened that completely warmed my heart. I got visitors. And not the “ I texted you on the way ” kind. No! Unannounced!!! They just appeared like sunshine through a cloudy day. Some of my children (who I know will read this); knocked off from work and decided to land at my doorstep. No warning. Just vibes. And can we talk about the audacity?  Yes, of just showing Up! You see, I’m not used to people popping in without a signal. My first words? “Are you guys on holiday or what?” They laughed. Then they said, “We just missed you and wanted to check on you.” My heart melted a little. Here’s the thing: for those of us who mentor, we’re somehow through life’s course wired to gi...
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Echoes of the Oldies; A Walk with Malawi's Music Veterans

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Allow me to first of all introduce Rudo. Rudo Mkukupa Chakwera is a prominent Malawian gospel and Jazz singer well known for her amazing vocals. She is the daughter of late Isaac Mkukupa, a renowned Jazz Musician. I met Rudo under circumstances I still can’t fully explain. But one thing is certain; We were meant to cross paths. We first worked together through  Girlfriends In Faith , the mentorship network I founded for University girls. When Rudo shared her passion and vision for her Charity, I knew instantly: we had to work together. And so we started. On July 9, 2025,  we began a journey that speaks directly to the core of who I am, an Arts enthusiast, a Storyteller and as a Digital Creator. It's a  journey rooted in arts, storytelling and culture. Together, we set out on a journey to meet Malawi’s  Veteran Musicians based in Malawi's central region; legends who had been eagerly waiting for this day to come. It is the start of something bigger than a visit or a me...
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Hope In the Shadows

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Sometimes, some stories linger in my mind, refusing to let go. Today, one such story has been with me and the lessons it carries are deep. I have always said, mentorship is not just about giving; it is a journey of learning aswell. We absorb wisdom, not to pile it, but to share it for the betterment of our society. I have always believed that the knowledge we gain should be a weapon for transforming lives and changing the narrative around us. During one of our ministry events at one University, my husband and I met a young girl. She was at the time, a third-year student. The event lasted all night till dawn and by 3 AM, exhaustion weighed heavily on my legs and knees. I decided to step away, to rest a little in the car while the event wrapped up. My husband was with me when one girl approached us. I will call her Hope. A little detour, I name these girls in my stories not just as a label but based on what I believe they embody. In her, I saw resilience, a quiet strength waiting to bloo...
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